Lifestyle Archives - First Step Blogging https://www.firststepblogging.com/category/lifestyle/ Sharing Tips, Tricks and Advice for Blogging Success Thu, 26 Mar 2026 01:05:34 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 https://www.firststepblogging.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/01B82223-EF11-48A1-A719-071F7CD03E2C-150x150.png Lifestyle Archives - First Step Blogging https://www.firststepblogging.com/category/lifestyle/ 32 32 186268158 Is Blogging Still a Thing in 2026? https://www.firststepblogging.com/is-blogging-still-a-thing-in-2026/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=is-blogging-still-a-thing-in-2026 https://www.firststepblogging.com/is-blogging-still-a-thing-in-2026/#respond Thu, 26 Mar 2026 01:03:15 +0000 https://www.firststepblogging.com/?p=6948 Is blogging still relevant in 2026? In this article, I break down how blogging has evolved since I first started in 2008 and why it’s still a powerful tool today. While social media dominates attention, blogs continue to drive long-term traffic, build authority, and provide real value through search. Blogging isn’t dead, it’s just more strategic and more impactful than ever.

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A reader from FirstStepBlogging.com recently asked, “Is blogging still a thing in 2026?” and I had to pause for a second before answering. Not because I didn’t know the answer, but because I understood where the question was coming from.

If you look around right now, blogging doesn’t feel as visible as it used to. You don’t hear people talking about it the same way. It’s not trending. Nobody’s really saying “start a blog” the way they did years ago. Everything feels faster now…short videos, quick posts, content that shows up and disappears almost instantly. So naturally, it starts to feel like blogging got left behind somewhere.

But it didn’t.

It just changed.

I actually started blogging around 2008, and it was a completely different world back then. There was no real pressure to optimize anything. You didn’t think about SEO the way people do now. You weren’t worried about algorithms or content strategy. You just wrote. People found your blog through blogrolls, comments, and word of mouth. It felt more personal, more open, and honestly, a lot simpler.

That version of blogging doesn’t really exist anymore.

Now, everything online is more competitive. There’s more content, more creators, more noise and even the addition of Ai. And people consume things differently too. Most people scroll instead of read. They want quick answers, quick entertainment, something they can process in seconds.

So when people compare blogging today to how it used to be, it’s easy to assume it’s not working anymore.

But the truth is, people still search.

That part hasn’t changed at all.

When someone actually wants to figure something out—when they have a real question, or they’re trying to make a decision, they don’t just scroll and hope the answer finds them. They go looking for it. They type it in. They read. They compare.

And when they do that, they’re not looking for a quick clip. They want something that actually explains things. Something clear. Something they can sit with for a minute.

That’s where blogging still matters.

A good blog post doesn’t just grab attention for a second. It holds it. It answers the question properly. It gives people something they can come back to. And that’s something short-form content can’t always do.

Another thing people don’t think about is how long content lasts.

On social media, you can post something and it’s gone within hours. Maybe it does well for a day, maybe it doesn’t. Either way, it fades quickly. You’re constantly starting over.

With blogging, it’s different. You can write something today, and it can still be bringing people in months from now. Even years. You don’t have to keep chasing attention the same way because the content keeps working in the background.

That kind of consistency is rare right now.

And honestly, that’s one of the biggest reasons blogging is still very much a thing. It’s just quieter about it.

There’s also something else that matters more now than it used to, ownership.

When you’re building on social media, you’re building on borrowed space. Algorithms change. Reach drops. Things shift all the time, and you don’t have much control over it. One day your content is everywhere, the next day it’s barely seen.

With a blog, especially one you own, that’s different. It’s yours. You decide how it looks, what you post, how it grows. There’s something stable about that, especially when everything else online feels unpredictable.

At the same time, blogging doesn’t really stand alone anymore, and that’s not a bad thing.

The way it works now is more connected. You might write a blog post, and then pull pieces from it for social media. You might turn it into a video idea. You might send it out in an email. Instead of creating new content from scratch every time, the blog becomes your base.

That’s the part a lot of people miss.

They think blogging has to be this separate thing, when really it works best as part of a bigger system.

There’s also less competition than people think. A lot of people stopped blogging because they moved to video or got discouraged when things didn’t grow fast. So while it feels crowded online, there are actually fewer people consistently writing quality content than there used to be.

And that creates space.

Especially for people who are willing to be patient with it.

Because blogging is not instant. That’s the trade-off. It doesn’t give you quick results the way social media sometimes can. But what it gives you instead is something more stable, something that builds over time instead of disappearing.

And not everyone wants to be on camera all the time either.

That’s another reason blogging still matters. It gives people a way to build something without constantly showing up visually. You can take your time, think things through, explain things properly. It’s a different kind of connection.

So when someone asks if blogging is still a thing, the honest answer is yes, but not in the way people expect.

It’s not loud anymore. It’s not trendy. It’s not something people brag about starting.

It’s just working in the background.

And the people who understand how to use it now? They’re not always the ones going viral, but they’re building something steady. Something that lasts longer than a post that disappears in a day.

So blogging is still here.

It just doesn’t need the spotlight the way it used to.

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Things That Surprise People About Blogging https://www.firststepblogging.com/things-that-surprise-people-about-blogging/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=things-that-surprise-people-about-blogging https://www.firststepblogging.com/things-that-surprise-people-about-blogging/#respond Mon, 16 Mar 2026 13:34:00 +0000 https://www.firststepblogging.com/?p=6882 What most people don’t realize until they start a blog themselves When people hear that someone runs a blog, they often imagine something fairly simple. They picture someone sitting at a laptop, typing out a few thoughts, clicking “publish,” and then moving on with their day. From the outside, blogging can seem like a relaxed […]

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What most people don’t realize until they start a blog themselves

When people hear that someone runs a blog, they often imagine something fairly simple.

They picture someone sitting at a laptop, typing out a few thoughts, clicking “publish,” and then moving on with their day. From the outside, blogging can seem like a relaxed creative hobby — maybe even an easy way to make money online.

And while blogging can absolutely be enjoyable and creative, the reality behind it often surprises people.

Once you actually start a blog and spend time building it, you begin to realize there’s much more happening behind the scenes than most readers ever notice. Writing posts is only one piece of a much larger process.

Over time, bloggers discover things about the work, the pace, and even themselves that they never expected when they first launched their site.

Here are some of the biggest things that tend to surprise people once they step into the world of blogging.


Blogging Is Much More Than Just Writing

One of the first surprises many new bloggers experience is realizing that writing is only a small part of blogging.

Yes, writing articles is the foundation of a blog. But publishing a post is rarely as simple as typing a few paragraphs and pressing publish.

Behind every article is a long list of smaller tasks that most readers never see.

Bloggers often spend time researching topics, checking search trends, organizing ideas, editing drafts, formatting posts, selecting images, and making sure everything looks good on both desktop and mobile screens.

Then there’s search engine optimization, internal linking, creating Pinterest graphics, promoting the article on social media, and occasionally updating older posts so they stay relevant.

When you add all of that together, one blog post can easily represent several hours of work — sometimes more.

For people who assumed blogging was mostly casual writing, this realization can be a bit of a shock.


Traffic Doesn’t Appear Overnight

Another common misconception is that blog traffic shows up immediately after publishing.

New bloggers often feel excited after launching their first few posts. They imagine readers discovering their work right away and leaving comments or sharing it online.

But in reality, most blog posts take time to gain visibility.

Search engines need time to discover new pages, evaluate their content, and decide where they belong in search results. That process can take weeks or even months.

During that early period, many bloggers check their traffic statistics frequently, hoping to see a sudden spike. Sometimes it feels like shouting into an empty room.

But patience is a normal part of blogging.

Over time, something interesting tends to happen: older posts begin slowly attracting visitors. A blog that once felt invisible gradually starts appearing in search results.

That slow buildup surprises many bloggers because the growth feels almost invisible at first.


Blogging Teaches You Skills You Never Planned to Learn

When people start blogs, they usually expect to become better writers.

What they don’t expect is how many other skills they’ll end up learning along the way.

Running a blog often introduces you to areas you may have never explored before.

Bloggers frequently find themselves learning about things like:

  • website design
  • search engine optimization
  • digital marketing
  • graphic design
  • social media strategy
  • analytics and traffic data

At first, these skills might feel intimidating. But over time they become part of the blogging routine.

Many bloggers eventually realize they’ve developed a surprisingly broad skill set simply from running their website.

That growth is one of the unexpected benefits of blogging. It quietly teaches you how the online world works.


Inspiration Doesn’t Always Show Up on Schedule

People sometimes assume bloggers always have endless ideas for posts.

The reality is that creativity doesn’t always cooperate with deadlines.

Some weeks, ideas seem to appear everywhere. A conversation, a question from a reader, or something you read online might instantly spark a new article.

Other times, inspiration disappears completely.

Staring at a blank screen while trying to think of something meaningful to write can feel frustrating, especially when you want to stay consistent with publishing.

Most bloggers eventually develop systems for capturing ideas whenever they appear. Notes apps, idea lists, or content calendars become helpful tools.

But even experienced bloggers still have moments when they wonder what to write next.

The difference is that they’ve learned how to push through those moments instead of waiting for perfect inspiration.


Blogging Can Be Surprisingly Personal

Many bloggers start their sites thinking they’ll simply share information or advice.

But over time, blogging often becomes more personal than expected.

When you write regularly, pieces of your personality naturally find their way into your posts. Your opinions, experiences, humor, and even your struggles start appearing in subtle ways.

Readers tend to respond strongly to that authenticity.

People connect with blogs that feel human. They appreciate honesty and real perspectives more than perfectly polished content.

This connection can be incredibly rewarding, but it can also feel vulnerable.

Sharing thoughts online means opening yourself up to feedback, questions, and sometimes criticism.

For many bloggers, learning how to balance authenticity with personal boundaries becomes an important part of the journey.


The Internet Is Much Bigger Than You Realize

When a blog first launches, it can feel like you’re sending your words out into a massive, invisible ocean.

And in many ways, that’s exactly what’s happening.

There are millions of blogs online, covering every topic imaginable. At first, it can feel overwhelming to think about competing with so much content.

But something surprising happens as you continue blogging.

Instead of feeling crowded, the internet starts to feel more like a collection of communities. Every niche has its own audience and its own group of readers looking for helpful information.

You begin to realize that you’re not trying to reach everyone. You’re simply trying to reach the people who need the content you’re creating.

That shift in perspective makes blogging feel much more manageable.


Some Posts Perform Far Better Than Others

One of the most unpredictable parts of blogging is how different posts perform.

You might spend hours crafting an article you’re incredibly proud of, only to see it receive very little traffic.

Meanwhile, a post you wrote quickly might suddenly become one of the most visited pages on your site.

This happens to nearly every blogger.

Search trends, timing, topic relevance, and reader needs all play roles in determining which posts gain traction.

Over time, bloggers begin noticing patterns in the kinds of content their audience responds to most.

Those patterns can help guide future writing, but there’s always a little bit of mystery involved.

That unpredictability is part of what keeps blogging interesting.


Blogging Requires Patience

Perhaps the biggest surprise of all is how much patience blogging requires.

The internet often promotes the idea of overnight success — stories of websites that explode in popularity within weeks.

While those situations do happen occasionally, they’re far from typical.

Most successful blogs grow slowly.

They build traffic gradually as more articles appear, more search engines index the site, and more readers discover the content.

The process can feel slow in the beginning, but it becomes more rewarding over time.

Blogging rewards persistence more than quick results.


It’s Incredibly Rewarding to Help People

Despite all the challenges and surprises, blogging offers something incredibly meaningful.

Every once in a while, you’ll realize that someone found your article while searching for an answer.

Maybe they were struggling with a problem, looking for advice, or simply curious about a topic you wrote about.

And somehow, your words helped them.

Sometimes that moment appears as a comment on a post. Other times it shows up in an email or a message from a reader.

Those moments remind bloggers why they started writing in the first place.

Behind every blog post is a real person reading it somewhere in the world.

Knowing your work made a small difference for someone else can be surprisingly powerful.


Final Thoughts

Blogging often looks simple from the outside, but anyone who runs a blog quickly learns that there’s much more happening behind the scenes.

It involves creativity, patience, learning new skills, and occasionally stepping outside your comfort zone.

Along the way, bloggers discover things about the internet, about writing, and even about themselves that they never expected.

And while the journey can sometimes feel challenging, it’s also deeply rewarding.

Because blogging isn’t just about publishing articles.

It’s about sharing ideas, connecting with readers, and gradually building something meaningful one post at a time.

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Blogging When You Have a Full-Time Job https://www.firststepblogging.com/blogging-when-you-have-a-full-time-job/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=blogging-when-you-have-a-full-time-job https://www.firststepblogging.com/blogging-when-you-have-a-full-time-job/#respond Sat, 14 Mar 2026 18:44:41 +0000 https://www.firststepblogging.com/?p=6869 One of the biggest myths about blogging is that it’s something people only do if they have endless free time. From the outside, blogging can look effortless. People imagine bloggers sitting in cozy coffee shops, casually writing posts and watching traffic roll in. The reality is often very different. Many blogs are built by people […]

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One of the biggest myths about blogging is that it’s something people only do if they have endless free time.

From the outside, blogging can look effortless. People imagine bloggers sitting in cozy coffee shops, casually writing posts and watching traffic roll in.

The reality is often very different.

Many blogs are built by people who already have full-time jobs, families, responsibilities, and busy lives. For them, blogging isn’t a full-time career at the beginning. It’s something they build slowly during evenings, weekends, and spare moments throughout the week.

If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s realistic to start a blog while working full time, the answer is yes — but it helps to approach it with patience and realistic expectations.


Why Many Bloggers Start This Way

Very few people jump straight into blogging as a full-time career.

For most, blogging begins as a side project.

Sometimes it starts because someone enjoys writing. Other times, people are curious about creating an online business or sharing something they’re passionate about.

Starting a blog while maintaining a full-time job provides an important advantage: financial stability.

Because your income doesn’t depend on your blog yet, you can experiment, learn, and grow without feeling constant pressure to make money immediately.


Finding Time to Work on Your Blog

The biggest challenge for bloggers with full-time jobs isn’t creativity — it’s time.

After a full day of work, sitting down to write an article can feel exhausting. Some weeks you may feel inspired and productive. Other weeks, life gets busy and your blog has to wait.

That’s completely normal.

The key is creating a schedule that fits your life rather than forcing yourself into an unrealistic routine.

For some bloggers, that might mean writing for an hour a few evenings each week. For others, weekends become their main blogging time.

The goal isn’t to move as fast as possible. It’s to move consistently.


Progress Happens Slowly, And That’s Okay

One encouraging thing about blogging is that progress adds up over time.

Even if you only publish a few posts each month, those articles remain online and continue working for you.

Six months later, you might look back and realize you’ve built a surprisingly strong library of content.

Each of those posts becomes another opportunity for someone to discover your website.

Blogging rewards steady effort much more than short bursts of intense activity.


Avoiding Burnout

When blogging is combined with a full-time job, burnout can become a real risk.

It’s easy to feel like you need to master everything at once… writing, SEO, social media, marketing, and monetization.

Trying to juggle all of that while maintaining your regular job can quickly become overwhelming.

A healthier approach is focusing on one step at a time.

Start by writing helpful content. As you become more comfortable with blogging, you can gradually explore other aspects like SEO or promotion.


The Hidden Advantage of Side-Hustle Blogging

Interestingly, blogging while working full time can actually have a major benefit.

Because your financial security doesn’t depend on your blog yet, you have the freedom to experiment.

You can try different topics, writing styles, and strategies without worrying about immediate results.

This often leads to more authentic writing and a healthier pace.

Many bloggers discover that this slower, steady approach allows their blog to grow naturally.


Final Thoughts

Building a blog while working a full-time job isn’t always easy, but it’s absolutely possible.

There will be weeks when your blog moves forward quickly and other weeks when life gets in the way.

That’s part of the process.

What matters most is continuing to move forward whenever you can.

Many successful bloggers began exactly the same way — writing posts late at night, publishing on weekends, and slowly building something meaningful over time.

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As someone who started blogging around 2008, I’ve seen the digital world evolve at a breakneck pace. Everything online is just so different now than what it was 17 years ago!! Social media platforms rise and fall, trends come and go, and technologies reshape how we connect, share, and learn. Yet, amidst all this change, one constant remains: the enduring power and relevance of blogging.

I know what you might be thinking. “Blogging? Isn’t that old news?” Trust me, I’ve heard it all before. But hear me out. In 2025, blogging isn’t just surviving—it’s thriving. It’s not just a tool of the past; it’s a bridge to the future. Let me explain why blogging still matters—and why it might just be a great idea for you to try in this new year.

A Platform for Authentic Voices

Blogging allows us to tell our stories in our own words, without filters or character limits. For someone like me, who’s lived through triumphs and trials, it’s a space where I can share my experiences and connect with others who see pieces of themselves in my journey. In a world saturated with curated Instagram feeds and fleeting TikTok videos, blogs provide a refuge for authenticity.

Think about it. When was the last time you scrolled through social media and felt like you got to know the real person behind the post? It’s rare, isn’t it? Blogging is different. It’s where we can be vulnerable, honest, and real. For African American creators, especially, blogging has always been a powerful tool for storytelling. It’s a space where we can share our perspectives, amplify our voices, and create content that speaks to our communities in ways mainstream media often overlooks.

When I first started blogging, I wasn’t sure anyone would care about my story. But over time, I realized that my voice mattered—not just to me but to the people who read my words and felt seen, heard, and understood. That’s the magic of blogging. It’s personal. It’s impactful. And it’s yours.

Depth Over Virality

Let’s talk about depth for a moment. Social media often prioritizes what’s viral, but blogging prioritizes what’s valuable. Blogs let us dive deep into topics that matter. Whether it’s a step-by-step guide for aspiring entrepreneurs, a heartfelt essay about personal growth, or an analysis of social issues, blogs offer the space to explore ideas in meaningful ways.

I’ll admit, I’ve written posts that took hours—sometimes days—to craft. I’ve agonized over the perfect word, re-read paragraphs to make sure they hit just right, and second-guessed whether anyone would care. But the reward isn’t just in the clicks; it’s in knowing that readers find genuine value in what I’ve shared. That kind of connection transcends algorithms.

When was the last time a 15-second video truly changed your perspective? Don’t get me wrong, I love a good dance trend or funny meme, but blogging offers something different. It’s a chance to sit down, reflect, and really connect—both as a writer and a reader.

Ownership Matters

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is the importance of owning your platform. Social media platforms come with rules, restrictions, and the constant risk of changes—or worse, shutdowns. Remember Vine? Or how quickly Twitter transformed into something unrecognizable? When you blog, your content is yours. You’re not at the mercy of someone else’s platform.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen creators pour their hearts and souls into building massive followings on social media, only to lose it all when the algorithm changes or the platform decides to pivot. That’s not a risk I’m willing to take. For those of us who’ve spent years building our brands and communities, blogging remains a digital home base—a place where we’re in control.

Search Engines Love Blogs

Even in 2025, search engines like Google remain gateways to information. And guess what? Blogs are search engine darlings. Whether someone’s searching for “how to start a small business” or “tips for maintaining natural hair,” well-written blog posts continue to dominate search results.

This isn’t just about vanity metrics or “being found.” It’s about reaching people who are actively looking for what you have to offer. Think about that for a second. These aren’t random likes from people who might never think of you again. These are readers who are genuinely interested in your expertise, your story, or your solutions. That’s powerful.

Monetization Opportunities

Let’s not forget the financial side. Blogging has opened doors for many of us to earn a living while pursuing our passions. From affiliate marketing and sponsored posts to digital product sales and online courses, the income potential is immense.

For middle-aged women like me, who might be looking to pivot careers or add a side hustle, blogging offers a flexible and rewarding option. It’s a chance to turn our wisdom and expertise into something profitable while still being deeply personal.

And let’s be real: there’s something deeply satisfying about earning money doing something you love. Blogging isn’t just a hobby; for many of us, it’s a livelihood.

Building Legacy

Blogging isn’t just about the here and now; it’s about leaving a legacy. Our words, insights, and experiences become part of the digital tapestry—a resource for future generations. When I write, I think about the young Black women who might stumble upon my blog years from now, finding inspiration in the paths I’ve walked.

Isn’t that what it’s all about? Sharing what we’ve learned, so others don’t have to start from scratch. Offering a hand, a story, a guide. That’s the heart of blogging, and it’s why it remains so powerful.

A Community Connection

Blogging is a two-way street. The comment sections, email exchanges, and social media discussions that stem from blog posts create genuine connections. These aren’t fleeting likes or shares; they’re conversations, collaborations, and relationships that can last a lifetime.

I’ve made friends through blogging. Real friends. People I’ve laughed with, cried with, and grown with. Blogging creates a sense of community that’s hard to find elsewhere. And in today’s world, where so much feels superficial, that kind of connection is priceless.

Adapting to Change

Let’s be real: blogging today doesn’t look the same as it did a decade ago. And that’s a good thing. Blogs now incorporate multimedia elements like videos, podcasts, and interactive content. They’re mobile-friendly, visually appealing, and tailored to readers’ needs. This adaptability ensures blogging remains a relevant and impactful medium.

If you’re worried about whether blogging is “too old-school,” don’t be. Blogging has grown up, just like the rest of us. It’s smarter, sleeker, and more versatile than ever.

With all that being said,

So, is blogging still relevant in 2025? Absolutely. It’s not just relevant; it’s essential. Blogging is one of the most powerful ways to share your voice, build your brand, and connect with a global audience. As an African American woman, blogging has given me a platform to be heard, to grow, and to inspire. And if you’re considering starting a blog, there’s no better time than now.

The world needs your voice. Yes, your voice. Your unique story, your perspective, your wisdom. So, what are you waiting for? Grab a cup of coffee, open your laptop, and start typing. Trust me, there’s someone out there who needs to hear what you have to say. And that’s the true beauty of blogging.

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I started my first blog on July 29th of 2010, not knowing really what to expect. I wanted to do something challenging, something fulfilling, and something fun. I basically needed a new hobby since I had been having a lot of stress that year and wanted to take my mind off of these negative things and put it into something a bit more positive.

Starting Noirgossip.com was a whirlwind of an experience in just a short amount of time.  For the average person who knows just enough about the internet to open an email account, chat, and find their way around Facebook, I soon found out that I certainly was not prepared for doing something so big-on my own.

All of my experience in working with posting articles alone came from my limited experience on a overseas entertainment website.  Watching the CEO and founder of this now extremely successful African entertainment online source build an simple idea into this very successful reality from the ground up, is really what ultimately inspired me to do the same.  I had never seen someone I personally knew, put their heart so strongly in everything they were involved in… The man breathes passion for his work.

In learning the ropes of the ends and outs of blogging in the first month I started writing, I was somewhat consumed in what makes blogging successful.  I am naturally a worry wort, so its hard not to think that I am not doing something right when every time I look for a post or a new visitor, nothing is there.  At that time, I brought some of my frustrations to light with the only one I really looked up to, and his response was  ”Maybe you should quit.  After all, blogging isn’t for everyone…  What makes you think people will run to your site, unless you give them something they want…I have been doing this for two years, you are complaining after one month… you have to have passion.”  I admit when I first heard these words, I felt sad, I felt like a failure, I felt bad for complaining, and I felt like a fool for bringing it all up.  I was rather disappointed because in the back of my mind I was looking for a pick-me-up, an word of encouragement from someone I always admired so much.  But, I’m now so glad that he gave me a bitter pill to swallow, because he is right.  You need tough skin, you need determination, you need willpower, and most of all you have to be passionate about whatever you want to do, otherwise you will not be successful.  Your heart has to be in it, something I always saw when I would notice his workings.  I then took my involvement with NoirGossip in a different way because  I really wanted this to work and be successful but most of all, I want to please my audience and have fun while doing it. And I was successful for a few years, until I got burnt out doing everything on my own.

Looking at other successful black bloggers online, I can see everyone has their own niche.  They own have their own writing style, their own reason for reaching out to the world.  Some do it as a hobby, others as their job.  When I was first introduced to the website SandraRose.com, she was probably my second favorite black blogger.  Then I was hooked on TalkingwithTami.com and Necolebitchie.com’s style. I loved that they all seemed to talk to their readers, a style I feel most comfortable with also.  When I read their posts, I felt like they were talking directly to their audience, and that is a cool relationship to have with your visitors.

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There are so many lovely blogs out here from haircare to love and relationships that our brothers and sisters are putting out for us to read and enjoy.  Lets support each other more and learn from each others experiences.  Just being a person of color gives us this unique perspective and point of view, that we all have something of value to share with the world.  Thanks to my old mentor for not only the tough love, but also to those I loved to follow for instilling the willingness in me to come out and open up my thoughts and ideas, share my personal experiences and be willing to talk about anything, with anyone, anywhere.  People like you are appreciated.  I’m glad i’m back writing again, and I am in this for the long haul.

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